Identifying Disorganized Attachment Style

Tomi Dean Lynch
3 min readJun 5, 2023

Attachment style theorizes that how we navigate our adult relationships is based on the way that we bonded with our primary caregiver as children. The four recognized attachment styles are secure, avoidant, anxious, and disorganized. If children grow up in an environment of consistency where their parent or parents fulfill their emotional needs, they tend to develop a secure attachment style. The rest of us fall into…

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Tomi Dean Lynch

Writer of Romance/Erotica, Extreme coffee drinker, transplanted Jersey girl, adopted mother of parrots.