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A controversial take on older women and younger men

Tomi Dean Lynch
3 min readSep 28, 2022

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I recently saw a video on Tiktok where the male creator gave his opinion, (stated as fact, of course) on younger men dating older women. His video was an obvious attempt to shun women who date younger as he stated that he knew the “Karen’s” were going to flood his comments and that he was excited by the idea of shutting them down.

While this guy seems to be a jerk of epic proportion, I have to say that there is some truth to his opinion. Even a broken man can be right every now and then.

The basics

· Younger men will gravitate to older women because there is no fear of commitment

· Older women will never have a fulfilling relationship with a younger man

· These relationships will never end in marriage

· An older woman will always be nothing more than a teacher who trains a younger man to be a better partner to his forever woman

· Younger men who date older are rarely high-value men. They are toxic, insecure, and financially unstable

· High-value men date women their age or younger

· Younger men who date older are looking for better sex, emotional support, and financial support

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Tomi Dean Lynch
Tomi Dean Lynch

Written by Tomi Dean Lynch

Writer of Romance/Erotica, Extreme coffee drinker, transplanted Jersey girl, adopted mother of parrots.

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